Strong Ladies of Fiction: Katsa, Fire, and Bitterblue

I’m sure at some point you would expect me to point out Katniss as a strong lady. And for the most part she is. But she’s not that BadA** I’m intending to talk about in this letter. I’d like to tell you about Kristin Cashore’s ladies: Katsa, Fire, and Bitterblue. Mostly because Katsa is everything Katniss is not.

Katsa, the lead in Graceling, is a born survivor. From a young age, the Graceling Katsa has been trained to do one thing and one thing well, in fact, she does it so well, they call it her Grace -- her gift. Kill. But, that’s not really Katsa’s biggest strength. Through the course of her story, she survives so much and she proves that not every happy ending includes living the rest of your life with someone.

Fire introduces the character of the same name, Fire, who is what is called in her world a human monster. Monsters in her land are creatures with unnatural, hypnotic beauty and coloring and are frequently deadly, thirsty for blood. There used to be more human monsters, but she's the very last one, her father taking so much advantage of his ability to hypnotize and his love for pain and suffering so great, that Fire is determined there will never be any more like her. Despite what se may be, she knows the difference between what she is and who she is and fights for her kingdom and the people she loves.

Bitterblue is a young queen that Katsa rescues in Graceling, who in her own story, must unravel the mysteries -- and the damage -- her father King Leck left on her kingdom. She lives a dual life trying to be a leader all the while seeking the stories that no one is willing to tell the queen herself.

All three of these characters have something about them that makes them strong -- yes, they make mistakes. Who doesn't. But, they learn from them. Katsa is physically strong, and a survivor, but she learns a lot about herself and about connecting to the people around her. That sometimes strength is best used to protect the people around you. Fire is strong, emotionally and mentally, and refuses to be boxed in by expectations, going so far as to make extreme sacrifices to keep others from taking advantage of those she loves. And Bitterblue is brilliant. She has to work hard to unravel the mental damage that's been done to her people and to herself. But, she has the strength of mind, will, and character, that even when she'd rather be a normal whinging teenager, she does look for and make startling discoveries to help everyone heal from the damage that has been done. All three are very human characters. All three have wonderful strengths and flaws. I loved all three books and I am hopeful that we'll see more from Kristin Cashore in the near future.

I highly recommend all three books to anyone.

Have a great day, Mrs. B. If it's warm where you are, grab a book and head outside. It's what I intend to do.

Much Love,
-OA.

Things have been hectic...

But there was something I wanted to share.

My darling SO got this for his birthday:

And after an hour of game play, all I can say is that the graphics and the world-- while lovely -- are also quite killer... so killer in fact that this is almost permanently stuck in my head:

Seriously... You have more likelyhood of dying immediately following the starting cut scene than in the whole of Oregon Trail. I know this is about how she got her start, but yowsers. Talk about being thrown into the fire....

And, since it's on the topic, I have to share...:

Strong Ladies of Fiction - Princess Elisa

Hello, Mrs. B.,

I’m going to begin this exploration I promised you with a really recent read, and one I've already talked to you about. Rae Carson has indeed created an amazing world in her Fire and Thorns series (I just finished reading Crown of Embers -- AWESOME BOOK!!), but more importantly, she’s written an amazingly vivid narrator, a strong, clever heroine that deserves some love.

Elisa is born both a princess and blessed by God, bearer of an amazing burden: a living godstone. But, Elisa acknowledges from the beginning that she is as far from a hero and a princess as any one girl could be. She believes herself especially to be far from being a woman that her recently betrothed could come to love or could ascend to his side as queen. Through the course of -- so far -- two stories, she grows and blossoms. She shows her real strength in so many ways. She may not be willowy or graceful, like her sister, but she’s brilliant. She’s a tactician with a natural talent in military and political maneuverings. She’s self-effacing, but she hides a spine of steel. She has a soft and caring heart. And she comes to realize that she is beautiful in ways that are very different from her sister. Her destiny leads her down some strange and twisting paths, but many of them are paths she decides to take. She falls in love and finds others fall in love with her in return. But, all the while, she also learns. From her successes and her mistakes. She learns from the situations she can and can’t control. She learns how one not-so-very princess-like girl can be not only a strong leader of a rebel faction, but a beloved queen. Because, that’s one thing she’s already learned, and learned early: Life isn’t wine and roses. Not for a princess and not for the people she rules.

And that’s just a part of what I like about her. I like that she doesn’t put on airs. That she comes to love a rougher life. She is adventurous. And she’s willing to try. She may not think she’s up to the task, but she still goes forward with everything she has.

I love Elisa. And, I think you will, too.

Enjoy, Mrs. B.

Best,
-OA.

Role Models: I Am Not A Princess...

So, Mrs. B.,

Let me be perfectly honest. For the longest time, my best fictional role model was not a Disney princess. When my sisters and I were playing pretend, we really rarely went with what few options were available to us. Because, really, only one person can be She-Ra. Someone had to be He-Man.

And someone had to be the bad guy, whether it be Skeletor or Catra... or Ursula the Sea-Witch....

Just look at that smile. She has got a PLAN.

Since I was wee, the height of amazing-life-successes for me would have been to be the voice of a Disney Villain. (And if I’m still being honest, it’s still one of my biggest “when I grow up” wishes.) Even now, I could probably sing you every word to every villain song (which I can’t say for the rest of the music in any Disney film). I still sing “Poor Unfortunate Souls” and Gaston’s Plan. Loudly. In as many voices as necessary.

The villains always had fun. They had the best songs. They were witty and crafty and strong and sure they did terrible things and were outsmarted by fluffy-headed heroes (well, at least until the mid-90s) and, on more than one occasion, dogs. But, they also knew who they were and they never took anyone’s crap. And maybe there’s something enticing about it to a girl who’d been given a name that was both a virtue and a hope for her behavior (and how everyone seemed to see her) more than anything else.

It wasn’t until Belle that I found a Disney Princess that was someone I could identify with. She was bookish and definitely not what everyone in town wanted her to be and she was fine with that. She argued and FOUGHT as the movie progressed, which was more than you could say for most of the princesses to that point. After her, you have wait for Mulan, who is arguably the most bada** “princess,” to find one who really takes charge of her own life rather than being led by the nose by the story or astray by the villain of the piece.

Villains, however, always take charge. They make their own fate. Whether they’re looking for phenomenal cosmic power or something more subtle, they have something they’re after. They’re not idly floating through life. Not even Ursula, since, while literally floating, was figuratively planning and preparing for her rival’s demise for DECADES. Whereas, most Disney heroes (except maybe the Rescuers until Mulan came along -- and how is that that the best heroes for children are anthropomorphic?) aren’t doing anything and don’t intend to do anything until their lives are changed by the villain. Even in the 101 Dalmatians, the owners had to be led into everything successful in their lives -- to meet, to marry, to have puppies, to write a song about their experiences with Cruella -- and the dogs, well, dogs are content to just live their lives for the most part until they were kidnaped and threatened with coat-ification. (I do not condone acts of harm and senseless butchery on innocent puppies and you’ve got to admit that this impetus to act is a little thin. Cruella was more than selfish, vain, and outlandish. She was a little bit nuts.)




Cinderella would have kept on cooking and cleaning and mending if not for the story -- the ball -- and her stepmother’s cruelty following the announcement of the ball. If you take out the fairy, she would have never gone and never would have caught the prince’s eye. And if her stepmother hadn’t had that dress destroyed, she probably would have gone and never ended up meeting the prince. She looked like what she was, afterall: a commoner and a scullery maid. Plot devices and the machinations of others moved her along. She didn’t decide to up and quit. She didn’t leave home and strike-out to find a better life. She was driven forward.

So, yeah. It was hard to find strong fictional role-models growing up, and while I’m not a villain (as much fun as it would be to voice one), I did learn a lot from them. I learned what to do and what not to do. Like the old joke goes, if you’re going to be an evil overlord, there’s nothing like running your plans by a 5-10 year old kid to see where the flaws are. Because you can learn to be strong and crafty and witty and still learn from the mistakes of the villain; to avoid the pitfalls. And perhaps to use your reputation to it’s best effect. Because people will always see what they want to see and will believe what they want to believe, but it’s up to you to give the impression in the first place and to decide if that’s truly who you are or what you’re going to do with that facade.

More on that another time.

And hopefully, later this week, more about my list of strong female fictional characters every girl should get to know.

Much Love,
-OA.

I know I was going to do this last month...

... But I wanted to revisit some books and refresh the old neurons.

So, THIS month, I'm giving you some of my favorite strong female characters. And fictional role models -- some untraditional as they might be.

Have a great March!
-OA.

Big Girl's Broken Heart

A very serious topic...

So, Mrs. B., I was reading some articles recently and as a strong role-model and a librarian, I thought we should talk.

These two articles depress me:

http://www.themarysue.com/why-talking-about-character-gender-still-matters-even-though-it-shouldnt/

http://jezebel.com/5966528/want-to-be-a-writer-then-ideally-dont-be-a-woman

I always wanted to be a strong woman like my mother when I grew up and I always complained about the lack of strong female characters in the stories I wanted to read. Sure it was great that there were strong male characters, but for the most part, like in the Middle Earth stories, a strong female is far rarer than a weak one. It's part of why I started writing, to give myself that character archetype to read. Then, Buffy came out and I was so excited. But, there haven't been many since. Especially when you look and see how pervasive characters like Bella Swan are. The Katniss-to-Bella ratio is painfully small, and these are things our young women are reading and watching on the big screen. And I'm not okay with that.

It breaks my heart, but it's the reality of the thing is that whether you're talking games or books, those strong females are still mostly missing. Sure, you get to play as Fem-Shepherd in Mass Effect, but as the lady said, how often in a Sci-Fi setting does that actually happen? Fantasy games have been getting better at that, but more often than not the armor and weaponry are still unrealistic -- clad in little more than a chain mail bikini, your dungeon-bunny goes bouncing her unnaturally proportioned body through the Underdark, and by the power of Greyskull, manages to take hits that would put down a rhino. Or maybe it's the magic of that braziere.

And, trust me when I say, my sister the archeologist complains just as loudly about Lara Croft as she does about Indiana Jones.

As a female writer who loves reading and writing in a male-dominated set of genres, I'm not okay that this is the advice that almost is needed to be given in order to succeed in the field. We live in a different world from the one my mother grew up in. Even the one I grew up in. We've had female astronauts and female Secretaries of State. There have been female Prime Ministers. We live in a world emboldened by female scientific pioneers like Sally Ride, Jane Goodall, Marie Curie, and Ada Lovelace. And these are no longer whispers behind closed doors, but people that we know and can learn about.

Yet, we not only hesitate to give ourselves fictional heroines that live up to that light, we instead give ourselves the exact opposite; offer our daughters the exact opposite on a regular basis. Female genre writers are almost thrown back to eras past where women like Mary Wollenstonecraft Shelley and others were relegated to publishing anonymously because the menfolk couldn't take the idea of a woman publishing a creative work.

I think I'm going to take February to give those stronger ladies I know some love and talk more about this.

Much Love,

-Odd.

Oh, Lydia... What have you done??

Alright, Mrs. B. We've talked before about just how ... excited I get about Pride and Prejudice. And how I've been following as much of the media for the Lizzie Bennet Diaries as I can.

So, while friends have been speculating on what's going to happen and when, I've been doing some speculating myself and waiting on tenterhooks for what comes next.

My patience can take it. I know .... Oh GOD when is the next one coming OUT?!

And then THIS happened. It was brought to my attention tonight.

Not what I was expecting, but bravo, LBD team. Bravo. Nicely played.

Catch up. The end game is here.

Happy New Year from Normand and Me